Luckily, there are signs, and some waving flags, to alert you to situations in which you're being used.You only have to be willing to see them and make decisions about how you will handle them.What he's doing is called "mirroring." He has no real identity, so he sucks yours up and mirrors it back to you. Try to check out his stories -- call hospitals if you need to -- but don't be surprised if he has an excuse for why you can't find any record of any of his traumas. Psychopaths are also known to disappear for days at a time.Be sure, the silent treatment and disappearing act will be laid squarely at your feet. Psychopaths love to work you up into a state of obsessive frenzy, so to do that, they idealize you, give you fabulous sex, and then begin pulling away and "triangulating." This is when they introduce other people into the mix to make you jealous.People considered sociopaths are classified as having antisocial personality disorder (APD).
A therapist who specializes in this area will help you to understand the steps taken by the sociopath to capture you and manipulate you. Firstly, it means you're able to see the relationship for what it is, something totally false that the sociopath creates in order to manipulate your emotions. He can no longer manipulate you in the same way and the effect he has becomes minimal.
boyfriend might be a problem and I need to address it because recently he asked me to send him some money for his phone bill, and I said, "okay baby." But then, he continues to bring it up through the day, then he goes on to say, "do it now!
" I don't know if I should put my feelings aside because I'm his girlfriend or if I should let him know I'm feeling used.
Cult leaders also install a sense of superiority or elitism in the members.
They do this firstly because the members become clones of the leader and the sociopathic leader believes he is better than others.
If you think you're shy, he will laugh at every lame attempt at a joke and tell you you should have been a comedian. Psychopaths will try to convince you that you are soul mates, just alike.