We are excited to open our toolboxes, which we have created in many years of studying and practicing a variety of approaches to influencing, attuning and aligning mind and body.We are also curious what new tools will come to life through your participation. SEX MAGIC is a combination of external techniques and internal practices.To his followers, 'the wedding as orgy, with the bride taking on all the men present, is the clear historical reality behind the modern jokes..the climactic line-up or "gang"-kissing of the bride, by all the men present'.In such a view, 'other examples of sacred or permitted public coitus of all women with all men do survive, in similarly modified "kissing" form', as under the mistletoe 'to revive the dying sun at the winter solstice, when the strongest human "life-magic", namely ritual intercourse, is to be deployed'.Sex magicians, such as Austin Osman Spare, openly advocate the use of the sex act -- or the passions or arousal states it evokes -- as a point upon which to focus their wills or magical desire for effects in the non-sexual world.
In similar fashion, Margot Anand has pointed out that 'rituals pervade our daily life and give it a sense of ceremony and celebration(...)a ritual, through your own unique symbolic gestures..help you transform your lovemaking into a special and sacred act'.
For instance, in the 1870s Paschal Beverly Randolph, an American author whom many sex-magicians consider one of themselves, wrote (in his book "Eulis!
") of using the "nuptive moment" (orgasm) as the time to make a "prayer" (and that is the word he used) for events to occur as well as for healthy offspring to follow.
From all these sources, I developed the ten erotic commandments.
Notice that they are not about physical love as an isolated phenomenon.
The former appears to appeal to the need for spiritual nourishment and the latter to desire to have a more fulfilling sex life.